If you’re trans, you WILL become paranoid. You’ll think everyone can see the tiny details of your appearance that might give away that you’re trans, when in reality, they’re not paying any attention to you at all. Most people won’t even care, or notice those details. You are just one more person in the fuzzy blur of people that surrounds them.  Nevertheless, we can’t help but be super-careful, because when there’s someone that notices and gives you strange looks, or says something inappropriate to you, it’s embarrassing as hell.

Excelsior!